In my last post, I explored some of the reasons why Nathan
Price of The Poisonwood Bible never
should have entered Congo as a missionary in the first place. In this post, I
want to explore some of the theological differences between what he and his
family believe and what I believe. To be fair, each of these topics could be
blog posts in their own rights, but I will try to keep my thoughts somewhat brief.
Conqueror vs.
Caretaker. The very first Bible passage quoted in the book is Genesis 1:28:
“And God said unto them, ‘Be fruitful, and multiply, and replenish the earth,
and subdue it: and have dominion over the fish of the sea, and over the fowl of
the air, and over every living thing that moveth upon the earth.’” Then in the
very first chapter the speaker, Nathan’s wife, Orleanna, poetically muses over
how the West came to conquer Africa and how her husband Nathan was likewise the
conqueror. The way the verse in Genesis is used, one might feel justified in
“subduing” a continent, a wilderness, a wife, a family. However, that is never
how I have viewed this passage. Throughout the Bible, it is clear that all
things actually belong to God. For
example, Deuteronomy 10:14 declares, "Behold, to the Lord your God belong
heaven and the highest heavens, the earth and all that is in it.” Psalm 24:1
states “The
earth is the Lord’s, and everything in it, the world,
and all who live in it” and this phrase is again reiterated in the New
Testament in 1 Corinthians 10:26. Similar
statements can also be found in Genesis 14:19-22, Exodus 9:29, Exodus 19:5,
Leviticus 25:23, Job 41:11, Psalm 50:10-12, Psalm 74:16, Psalm 89:11, Psalm
95:4-5, Psalm 104:24, Haggai 2:8. Therefore we are not owners, and we
are not conquerors. We are stewards--caretakers called to value, nourish, prune,
restore, and protect the world around us. There is much Biblical justification
for showing love and appreciation for the natural world and the people around
us, but Nathan Price missed it all.
Religion of judgement
vs. Religion of grace. When Nathan Price and his family entered the
community, the people of Kilanga welcomed them warmly, killing a goat, and
preparing a feast. This was Nathan’s first opportunity to address the people,
and what does he start with? He shamed the women whose breasts were exposed—which
was appropriate to the culture— taking the story of Lot out of context in an attempt
to justify his message. And all I could think was “Wow. He completely missed
the point. What is critical to the message of Christ?” When Jesus approached
people, especially those who eagerly showed him welcome, he led with love. He
led with gratitude. He did not hold himself to be above others, but served
those around him. The only group to whom he expressed anger and judgement were
the Pharisees and teachers who thought they were above their neighbors—the
Nathan Prices of that era. Yet, even among that group, some came to realize
that the primary message of Jesus was love, a love not bound by anything we
have done or could ever do, a love given freely as a gift.
Using shame to change
behavior vs. Behavior change as a result of relationship. The destructive
nature of shame and of using shame to try to change behavior has become
increasingly clear to me over the years. I have especially appreciated and
highly recommend the research and writing of Brene Brown. Nathan Price regularly
used shame tactics to change people’s behavior, and again, I think Nathan Price
missed the point. Christianity is not a list of things that one must do to
please God—pray a certain prayer (check), get baptized in the river (check), go
to church (check), read the Bible (check), memorize certain verses (check), dress
a certain way (check), end polygamy (check)
…
As Pastor Ben Stuart once said, “That is not Christianity. That is list-ianity.”
Christianity is not a list. It is a relationship. It is understandable how
Nathan Price missed this distinction, because there are many churches and even
whole denominations who have lost this distinction. God is not “watching us,”
as the Price children suspected, waiting for us to mess up. God is loving us,
grieving with us, rejoicing with us, and longing for us to know him better. In
its truest form, Christianity is simply a relationship with God/Jesus/Holy
Spirit. Do our actions change in various ways as a result of that relationship?
Of course! That happens in any meaningful relationship. The more time you spend
with your best friend, for example, the more you may start to use the same
expressions and act similarly. I do not pray because I am supposed to. I pray
because relationships generally do not go well without communication. I do not
read the Bible because I feel guilty if I don’t. I read the Bible to discover what
words God might want to speak into my life. I do not go to church because I am
being forced. I go because I know that as a human I was built for community and
I need the encouragement of others in my faith. God is not a fan of coercion
and does not want a relationship founded on fear and guilt. God wants a
relationship based on love and trust. I become highly skeptical of any
religious organization or person that wants to shame me into something. My God
does not want to shame me. My God relieves me of shame and tells me I am
beloved. I do not want to be pushed, guilted, or shamed; I seriously doubt
anyone does. I want to be inspired
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Prosperity gospel vs.
Actual gospel. Prosperity gospel is the idea that if you pray the right
way, give the right way, and do the right things, God will “bless” you, meaning
that health, wealth, success and happiness will follow. We see this ideology in
both the U.S. and Tanzania. Here in Tanzania there is even a church called
“Winners Church.” The concept is rampant in many Christian circles, and it is
completely false. This concept is not the gospel—good news—of Jesus. Jesus did
not experience a world without trouble. I mean, seriously, he was violently
killed on a cross. Likewise, none of his disciples became rich, many of them
were beaten, and all but one were killed for their faith. The belief that only
good things happen to good people is more closely akin to karma than to
Christianity. On the night before Jesus was killed, Jesus shared with his
disciples how they would be scattered and how he would die. He said, “I have
told you these things, so that in me you may have peace. In this world you will
have trouble. But take heart! I have overcome the world” (John 16:33). Trouble,
pain, and suffering are parts of this life. The good news is that there is a
peace in God that transcends life’s circumstances, and there is a hope in Jesus
that cannot die. And yet, Nathan Price
believed fervently that he would have success on earth if he just followed the
magical formula. He believed that any problems that befell the Congolese were
because of their lack of faith. He believed nothing bad could happen in his
life because he was “doing God’s work.” He did not heed the warnings of others
or ever consider that he might need to change his approach. As such, the people
of Kilanga followed suit, and as soon as trouble befell the Price family,
particularly in the death of their youngest child, the people assumed that
Jesus could not be trusted. Nathan had metaphorically built his house on sand,
and as soon as trouble came, his weak spiritual foundation collapsed.
The Bible as
punishment vs. The Bible as a love story. Whenever Nathan Price wanted to
discipline his children, he forced them to write 100 Bible verses with the last
verse driving home whatever point he wanted to make. Or if he was in a
particularly foul mood, he would drive the point home with his hand or belt.
That’s enough to make any child hate the Bible. It is exceptionally hard for
children to see God as a loving father when their own father expresses no love.
It is impossible for children to see the Bible as a love story when it is used
as punishment. Yet, it is a love story. Truly, there are many Biblical stories
that are confusing. There are many passages that can only be understood in a
certain historical context and with a more nuanced sense of the original
language and culture. And honestly, there are parts I wish I could just forget
about. However, this I know. The Bible was never meant to be a rulebook for the
“morality police.” It was always meant to be the story of the love of our God. It
tells of a Creator who never gives up on His creation, no matter how far it
strays, no matter how many times it says “I don’t trust you. I will take care
of myself and do things my own way.” As Pastor Truemper, one of my Valpo
professors used to say, “God loves you, for Christ’s sake, and He will never
let you go.” If you ever want to read the Bible in the form of a novel to get
to the heart of the message, I highly recommend “The Book of God” by Walter
Wangerin Jr.
Working for God’s
favor vs. Trusting that you already have it. Throughout the book Nathan
tries to overcome his survivor’s guilt by “saving souls.” The entire time he
was trying to earn God’s approval. Many religions have this concept of do
enough good and then you will get God’s approval, get into heaven, or reach
some higher plane of existence, but that is not Christianity. If there is
anything that makes Christianity unique from other religions, I feel it is that
you don’t have to earn God’s approval. God loved us enough to reach out to us
through Jesus and to do whatever it took to bridge the gap between us and God.
All God wants from us is a relationship, for us to trust that He loves us and
to let Him into our lives. A beautiful book on this topic is “The Cure: What if
God isn’t who you think He is and neither are you?” by Bill Thrall, Bruce
McNicol, and John Lynch. The book presents an allegorical tale of a person who
comes to a fork in the road. One side says “Pleasing God,” while the other side
says “Trusting God.” Which side would you choose? Nathan Price definitely chose
“pleasing God” which led to a life of mask-wearing and sin-management instead
of living by faith with the assurances of God’s love and grace. His wife,
Orleanna Price, also felt this burden. Even when she returned to the U.S., she
felt she had to hide her hurt; she felt that she could never be vulnerable.
Unfortunately, even today the church is not always the best at allowing people
to be real and vulnerable, but that is what we are called to do! We are all in
the same boat, and the sooner we can take off our masks, the sooner we can
experience the fullness of God’s love and share it with others.
Cringing at “unearned
blessings” vs. Being thankful for every gift. Nathan Price felt that he had
to earn every good thing that came into his life. He could not accept that God
could give gifts purely out of love, with no strings attached. As an example,
he became ashamed of sex with his wife instead of seeing it as a beautiful
gift. He also felt that he had to completely detach himself from material
goods. Because of his sense of guilt, he did not feel that he deserved joy or
laughter. He could not take pleasure in the simple gifts—a beautifully
decorated plate, eggs from his neighbors, the sighting of a kopi in forest, the
laughter of his children… So much of his life might have been different if he
had been able to embrace all the gifts of his Creator.
People as projects
vs. People as people. Nathan Price has one goal—“saving the lost,” particularly
through baptism in the river. It did not seem to matter to him whether or not
the person actually understood or believed anything he said. He didn’t care to
find out what they believed or how they saw the world. Nor did he care to find
out why the people were so averse to going to the river (crocodiles). He knew nothing about the people around him
and did nothing to serve them or show them love. All he cared about was the end
goal. Personally, I have never seen my role as “saving people from hell.”
Good-grief, that’s a lot of pressure, and the whole notion of that is
fear-based. Fear is not how I want to live my life nor what I want to impose on
anyone else. In the book, one of the Price children wondered aloud what might
happen to all the people who didn’t know about God. I can tell others about the
peace I have in God’s promises for my future, but I will not tell anyone
definitively what happens post-death or what has happened to one of their loved
ones. There is so much we don’t know. I
am not God. I love how Phillip Yancey phrases it when asked about a similar
topic, “I do not know the answer to your questions. But I believe strongly that
at the end of time no one will be able to stand before God and say ‘You were
unfair!’ However history settles out, it will settle on the side of justice
tempered by mercy.”
Nathan Price could never see the people in Kilanga as more than a project. What
might have happened if Nathan had seen the people in his community as people,
as neighbors, as friends, as fellow passengers on a journey? I want to walk
with people. I want to share in their joys and sorrows and share my joys and
sorrows with them. Of course, in the context of our openly Christian school, I
regularly share about my faith, but I also admit that I am still a work in
process and always learning. I do not have all the answers, but I do want to offer
what I have experienced and found to be true in my limited time on this earth. I
unapologetically believe that the Holy Spirit works in people’s lives to bring
hope and healing. I’ve seen it—in my own life and in the lives of others. When
people are looking for hope, I am more than happy to share about the source of
my hope. That being said, being a Christian or believing what I believe is not
a requirement for my love or friendship.
In my final post, I’ll talk more about the reputation of
missionaries—the good, the bad, and the ugly. Stay tuned…